You Are More Than You've Been Told
- Dee Reads
- Feb 19
- 2 min read

If you’ve ever felt like your identity was a patchwork quilt of labels other people forced onto you, Hosanna Wong’s You Are More Than You’ve Been Told isn’t just a book. It’s an intervention.
Rarely do you encounter an author who feels less like a distant "expert" and more like a friend sitting across from you at a kitchen table, looking you in the eye and saying, "I know it’s heavy. You can put it down now." Hosanna is dangerously real. She doesn't shy away from the gritty parts of her own story, which creates this immediate, visceral connection. Reading this felt like finally being seen in a room where I’ve spent years trying to blend into the wallpaper.
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This Book Hits Differently!
Hosanna dismantles the "lies" we’ve inherited. The ones that say we are only as good as our last success, or that we are defined by our biggest mistakes. She introduces the concept of "Rhythms" that actually help you practicalize your worth, rather than just giving you fluffy affirmations.
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The prose in this book is rhythmic, poetic, and pierces straight through the noise. Here are the moments that stopped me in my tracks:
"I'm sorry for every way you've been told to look like someone else, have a lifestyle like someone else, or a story like someone else. That you've been told to change who you are to be good enough to be loved."
"The words people have said to you do not have the authority to define you."
"You don't have to perform to be loved. You were loved before you ever did a single thing worth mentioning."
"You deserve to stop looking at yourself through the broken lens of others. When you see yourself through the lends of God and how He sees you, you will see yourself for who you really are and who you've always been."
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This is a roadmap for anyone tired of the hustle and the "not-enoughness." It’s for the person who feels like they’ve been living a version of themselves that was edited for someone else's comfort. For those who have ever been told that they are "a lot" or "too much". Hosanna reminds us that the truth of our identity isn’t something we have to build—it’s something we have to recover.
If you feel lost in the labels, buy this book. It’s time to remember who you actually are.



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